What Age Do Children Start Nursery?
Every family's answer is different. Some babies start nursery in their first year when a parent goes back to work. Other children start at two or three, or go straight to a pre-school class. This guide covers the usual timings in the UK, how to check what support is available, and how to help your child, and their bedtime routine, get ready.
When can children start nursery?
There's no single starting age. Many day nurseries take babies from a few months old, while pre-schools and nursery classes usually take children from two or three. Start dates often depend on the setting's own admissions and, for many families, on when parental leave ends.
School comes later. In England, most children start Reception in the September after their fourth birthday. Children reach compulsory school age in the term after their fifth birthday. Arrangements differ in Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland, so check your local council's website.
Check what childcare support you can get
The government offers funded childcare hours and other help with costs for some ages and circumstances. The rules vary between the UK nations and change from time to time, so use the official checker on GOV.UK, or your council's website, for up-to-date eligibility before you choose a start date.
Signs your child may be ready
- They're curious about other children and enjoy playgroups or classes.
- They can manage short separations with a familiar adult.
- They have a fairly settled daytime nap and bedtime routine.
- For older toddlers: they can make their needs known, even with a few words or gestures.
None of these are essential. Nursery staff are used to supporting children at every stage.
Getting sleep and routines ready
Starting nursery can be tiring, so a calm, predictable evening helps. In the weeks before, move wake-up and bedtime gradually towards the times you'll need on nursery days. Ask the nursery about their nap routine and copy it at weekends if you can. Our guide to baby and toddler nap time has more tips.
Moving from cot to bed?
Many children move from a cot to a bed between 18 months and three years, often around the same time as starting nursery. Try not to change everything at once. If your child is already settling well in a cot, there's no rush. When you do make the switch, a low toddler or floor bed is a gentle first step. Try the Hoppekids Shorty Housebed with Safety Rail White or the Tutti Bambini Grande Casa Montessori Toddler Floor Bed 90 x 200cm - Harvest Oak. Read our toddler bed guide.
Set up a bedroom that builds independence
Nurseries encourage children to do small things for themselves, like hanging up a coat or choosing a book. You can do the same at home:
- Low, open storage: so children can reach and tidy their own toys, such as the Obaby Maya Toy Storage Unit.
- A little table and chairs: for drawing and puzzles, like the Kidsaw Gruffalo Toddler Table and Chairs Set.
- A safe step up: a learning tower such as the Tutti Bambini Helping Hands Montessori Toddler Learning Tower - Natural lets toddlers join in at the kitchen counter, with an adult nearby.
- A seat with storage: the Bloomingville Rhino Kids Stool With Storage is fun and practical.
Always fix tall furniture to the wall. See all kids storage and kids tables and chairs.
Practical checklist for the first day
- Label everything: coats, bags, spare clothes and bottles.
- Pack a spare outfit or two, plus nappies or pants as needed.
- Bring a comforter if the nursery allows it.
- Keep goodbyes short, warm and consistent.
- Plan a quiet, early evening for the first few weeks.
Frequently asked questions
What age do most children start nursery in the UK?
There's no fixed age. Many day nurseries take babies from a few months old, and pre-schools usually start from two or three. It depends on the setting and your family's needs.
When do children start school in England?
Most children start Reception in the September after their fourth birthday. Compulsory school age begins the term after their fifth birthday.
How do I find out about funded childcare?
Use the official childcare checker on GOV.UK, or your local council's website. Rules vary by age, circumstances and UK nation.
Should my child move to a bed before starting nursery?
Only if they're ready. Many children move between 18 months and three years, but it's best not to change too much at once.